Greg and Katherine from Rufus’ Food and Spirits Guide challenged me with this series of questions. Actually, and thank you very much, I found this exercise a wee bit difficult. But you guys have such a wry sense of humour! Today I had to think. And as we know thinking is hard!!
However here are my humble answers to their searching questions.
What or who inspired you to start a blog. Our little old fashioned farm is called the Kitchen’s Garden because I grow food for the kitchens. I started thekitchensgarden blog so that all my children and their dearly beloveds could pop in and see what I was doing any time they felt like it and might be inspired. I live far far away from my grown children and we are in contact frequently but this way I would feel closer to them. I never for a minute thought I would meet so many other blog people and that so many of you would be interested in the farmy as well. Pretty amazing. So from this simple idea a naughty blog monster has sprung!
And, I wanted everyone to see that you Can live a very simple life. That doing without has more to do with the WITH than with the OUT. (Does that make sense?) That dreams can come true. Though sometimes it is not the dream you thought you were dreaming. 
John would tell you that he wants the blog to inspire us to take charge of our own lives. He wants people to know that they CAN save the barns, save the old houses, live on the land, grow your own food, be independent, be autonomous. It is not that hard. And it is not expensive if you take your time and use recycled materials. (You should see the heavy solid wooden door he came home with the other day, that he found on someone’s burn pile!!) But he would probably say all that using three words, plus a couple of grunts and much shaking out of the newspaper, as he is after all The Silent One.
Then, Tig the youngest son called from New Zealand and said ‘Why don’t you tell us what you are eating as well, and write the old Mama recipes, so we can look them up.’
Then third son’s lovely wife called from California and said ‘What temp do I cook the scalloped potatoes on’.
Then eldest son texted from Canada and said ‘How long do I cook this big roast for anyway?’
And Senior Son said on our email chat ‘keep it realtime, talk about the small stuff. ‘
Sops said ‘ Do you want me to top up your wine?’
And Our John turned the page on his newspaper and said, ‘Is the Oven still on for a reason?’.
And I thought. Hmm. And the Foodie Component to the thekitchensgarden was the result.
Foodie Inspiration. My readers and the blogs I read are masters at inspiration and Beautiful Daughter. She works in hospitality and is presently in London. She is a great researcher, reader and taster and is always calling me from somewhere in the world with a wonderful idea. Though for some reason she often calls when she is putting on her make up and about to run out the door, so our conversations are quite delightfully mad with family shorthand.
Who taught you to cook? Like most of us, my first introduction to cooking and feeding others, was with My Mother. She taught me the basics. She also experimented a lot in the kitchen which gave me the nerve to teach myself more, deal with failures and trust my palate. She encouraged me to write the work down by passing on the old recipe books to me.
A food bloggers table you would like to eat at. (FIRST?) Rosemary’s table at Cooking in Sens, her food is so local (French), so simple, so beautiful, so healthy and absolutely, unapologetically beautiful. Plus I think she might have a wine cellar.
Here I need to add that there are so many glorious cooks out there who visit me on the blog, and who I chat with almost daily on the webs, who I long to visit with and cook with. You know who you are! Yes, you. I shall be naming names in a few weeks!
Best thing you have eaten in another country. I don’t know. I honestly do not know. I have eaten so much good food in different countries over the years. The first one that springs to mind though, is a tiny restaurant right on the waterfront in Amalfi, Italy. It was hidden away down the track to the marina. The boats had just come in and I ate fresh, fresh bright eyed fish. I cannot even tell you what the fish was but it was a whole fish, salted and cooked to perfection. Nothing fancy. I ate it outside, under an umbrella, with the gulls and a glass of something white and crisp for company. It was my day off so I was alone. I often went there alone. Actually I love to eat alone too. I had been staying in the town long enough for the waiters to know me, so they had begun to make my food choices for me. I was very spoilt.
Batter splattered food book. My own recipe book. None of the pages are actually attached now, and I use the cover as a kind of manilla file. There are recipes that have been touched with grubby fingers so often that the words have almost gone. Often the recipes were written in the hand of the cook, on the night we cooked together, so you can imagine.
I am coming for dinner, what is your signature dish. This really would depend on the season. We will go for late summer. Home grown grass-fed fillet steak, cut thick and grilled over home made mulberry wood charcoal, with handfuls of green rosemary occasionally thrown into the coals for scented smoke. Scalloped potatoes with freshly dug onions and potatoes and this mornings cream and fresh cheese, and a huge crisp wild green salad. Beets poached and caramalised in butter and balsamic. Best you come in the summer when the gardens are producing, who knows what we will be picking. We will eat outside on the verandah, surrounded in gardens, and shaded by trees, so you can bring your dogs!
Kitchen Gadget from Santa. Old Butter Churn. I really, really need a sturdy butter churn.
Guilty Food Pleasure. Refried mashed potatoes browned until crispy in butter. 
Reveal something about yourself that others would be surprised to know. I had to think for a long time about this one.
(big breath) I do not use recipe books. (oh, you are not surprised?) I have bought them on occassion and have even been given a few, but I never use them. They sit in the library up in the loft unconsulted. John has some Thai recipe books and he refers to them religously on his cooking nights. His food is delicious. Mine is kind of free form. Feeds develop organically in the kitchen, one thing leading to the other. Once when Sops the Beautiful Daughter was visiting, John came in from work. He looked in the fridge , then poked at the bowls on the bench, opened the oven door, peered in then closed it, sniffing his way around and said.. (wait for it) ‘What’s for dinner?’
‘Oh, something weird,’ I said as I served up bowls and platters of Greek salad, english roast beef, asparagus with Hollandaise Sauce (we were practicing a new no-fail Hollandaise Sauce that Sops had read about) and humous. ‘Everything she cooks is weird’ said Beautiful Daughter, gaily. ‘Nothing ever matches.’ As she laid little bowls of hot sour apple sauce onto the table.
‘Sit carefully on those chairs,’ I said to Sops as she sat at the table,’ they are old.’
‘Oh I know about you and rickety chairs’ she said, then turned to John” When the kids and I were growing up in New Zealand…..” I tuned out as she revealed to John, her mother’s then new husband, something else you did not know. How as children, they had grown up surrounded in their grandparents and great-grandparents precious antiques. I was a young solo mum with many children in a rented house. For one reason or another, I inherited a few of the family things after my mother died, so we used to use a lot of antiques in our daily life. The funny part of the story was that we could not afford to buy cheap every day stuff, so we used the really really good antique stuff. My Mother had saved these dishes and silverware, and glasses and things to use when we had visitors or on feast days. For Good!! So ironic.
The kids and I used silver salad servers with gold threaded through the ebony handles! And wore beanies inside because we could not afford to heat. We had an enormous solid silver spoon so big we called it spare plate and it was ideal for serving mashed spuds. We ate a lot of spuds – they were cheap. We had short showers to save on hot water and our soap dish was Wedgewood. Drinking milk out of crystal. Macaroni cheese served in beautiful old soup tureens with delicate handles. And the furniture was the same. Gorgeous. We all sat at an enormous solid oak table with ten tall carved rickety old chairs. I never again kept the good stuff in a cabinet. Actually I did not have a cabinet, who got the china cabinet? But we have wandered off the subject.
I am going to leave you there. I have received a few more awards and things just lately, which is so sweet, so I shall pass on to you some names of new-to-me blogs to celebrate, after Christmas, when everyone has more time. And at that time I shall challenge a few of you to answer these questions as well!
Now back to work!
c


60 responses to “An inspired challenge while sitting on a rickety old chair, no wriggling!!”
Another day opened with some envious salivation and images from words that measure time softly with a smile. Thanks Cecil.
That is a lovely thing to say, you really are a poet.. c
What a cool post, c! Those questions certainly were insightful. Imagine my suprise while reading to find my name there (no, not me, just my name) or at least the name I have been known by all of my life by close friends and family. It’s Tig!! What a cool suprise. He is the first other person I have heard of with that name.
We called him Tigger because Tiggers can do anything and he was that kind of kid! And now I know that you are a Tig too! Great! c
A wonderful read, particularly the ‘everyday antiques’ part. Such lovely family memories, even during tough times.
Christine
They were good times too christine, we got down to it but at least we had good china!! c
I love these posts. I feel like I am sitting with you at your kitchen table, glass of wine in hand, knife and chopping board in the other while you are doing something “weird” in the kitchen, glass of wine in your hand and a meal is coming together as we chat, dogs at our feet and the afternoon slowly ticks away to the dinner hour. I am sitting on one of your rickety chairs, of course!
Sit carefully! and oh yes Tanya, I love to talk with a glass of wine in one hand and a knife in the other!! wild! c
Oh I knew this would be such a joy to read. I love the image of your family, well not in that way, of being poor, but having luxuries. You always seem to make the best of any situation. I love that you don’t use cookbooks too. And why haven’t we thought of smoking rosemary, ha!
It was Ok to be that poor, we felt fine and worked our way out of it. And in the summer when your rosemary is thriving, throw branches of it on there. I plant two or three bushes next to the barbeque corner, specifically for that, it smells so good and really does scent the steak too.. c
Wonderful stories, as always- thanks for sharing. Love the vivid image of the fish in Amalfi and the houseful of poor children eating off precious antiques. -kate
Hi, Kate, yes it was quite funny when you think about it!! c
Such a life you’ve had and continue to have. The no cookbook doesn’t surprise me at all, my eldest sister has always cooked like that and she makes some goooooood stuff! t
It is really just my lazy nature! Opening a recipe book take up so much energy!! c
Celi, thank goodness someone with your talent puts together meals that don’t match! Do you know how many of us will actually cook knowing someone like you puts together what is available? 😀
One of our island families was so stretched for money that they shared plates and cutlery at meals. Dressing a table was a foreign concept to the children! They decided it meant leggings for their antique, solid oak dining room table. None of this was not generally known…they did it discreetly, but the stories eventually came out (with great bouts of humour!) as their earning power increased. I’m fascinated by the creativity of each of those (now grown) children who pursue such purposeful careers in different locations. I wonder if there’s a message here…
I watch my carbs, but I love mashed potatoes fried in butter, too. To get that reddy brown crispness is perfection.
Only a REAL lover of fried mashed potatoes knows about the reddy browny crispness! thank you Ms Soul, ours was also a solid oak dining table, it sat 14!! actually it still seats 14 but in the home of my fourth and youngest son! c
Beautifully expressed and, as always, reverberates with me, too. I once said to my 5 children, ‘Don’t worry, kids, we won’t have bottomed out until we have to sell the silver.’ Then one night all we had to eat was a can of beans and some stale bread which we shared by candlelight (sterling, of course) on a beautiful Duncan Phyfe table and I said, ‘Right. It’s time!’ Today, I proudly possess and regularly use rickety antique chairs and my children are grateful for the lessons learned during those days of discovering just how resourceful one can be.
That was great Mary, I know exactly what you mean. I used to say, you know we are in trouble when we have to sell the rings! I wore and still wear both my grandmothers diamond rings. Quite a collection actually. I had to sell the piano to pay the electricity bill but I never sold those rings.!! c
Great post and answer to the challenge! Some of those questions, though fun, aren’t necessarily easy to answer. You handled each with aplomb and your customary light-hearted style. In each of your posts, there is a point that comes through loud and clear: you, my Dear, are a survivor, and a happy one, at that.
We all are, one way or another, survivors. It might have looked like a bit of a struggle but I have always considered myself to be one of the lucky ones.. we always managed..And my children are some of the toughest most versatile people around.. they just don’t give up.. c c
Loved reading all your answers C!
Thank you Hippy.. c
My Mom was’t much of a cook. If it could be broiled she did so. If not, she didn’t bother trying to prepare it. When I got married I had never tasted squash of any kind and didn’t know what vegetables tasted like unless they came from a can.
Where did my interest in cooking come from? I honestly don’t know, but I loved cooking classes, especially ones of varying ethnic styles. Do you suppose there’s a gene for cooking interest?
Ronnie
PS: if you’ve read the post on my blog, Memorial to Gourmet Magazine you might understand why that publication meant so much to me.
Ronnie
I did read that post, a while ago, i shall go back and read it again, thanks ronnie.. c
Maybe there is a gene, or maybe we just LOVE to EAT!! so we COOK! c
Perhaps the latter of the two choices.
Ronnie
I’m sorry, did you say refried mashed potatoes browned until crispy in butter?!?!!?! Yes, I think you did, and I think I need to eat that right now!! Holy cow. OK, just had to get that out. Anyways, this is such a great idea, I’m glad they asked these questions so we could find a bit more about you, Cecilia. 🙂 I learned how to cook from my mother as well…they really do know all, don’t they?? x
Frying mashed potatoes are the best the next morning.. oh yes.. Mothers have secrets, some were good cooks, some were rotton cooks but we can still learn if we are the kind of person who wants to learn.. you definitely learned some kitchen secrets! c
Beautiful dear Cecilia, as always it was so enjoyable reading. Thank you, with my love, nia
Thank you Nia.. c
You are always up to the challenge! We’ve always used the good stuff – why let it sit on a shelf gathering dust? I just don’t see the point! Nice to get a wee glimpse of your children!
I agree completely. We love our bling glasses so we use them! Why wouldn’t you.. c