When my mother was ‘feeling bloody’ she meant feeling bloody determined.
Written earlier in the morning:
“Well, my usual driver is unable to drive the trailer for me today so I am going to have to Man Up and hook up the stock trailer and deliver my hog myself. I am trying to feel bloody about it.
I have driven the stock trailer around the block often enough so it really is only about 50 times that, then 50 times that home again. So even though I find the whole idea scary – Fear is the only thing bothering me. And it is irrational. Fear f driving a truck and stock trailer is irrational.
Evidently, I just drive the truck and the trailer follows me. 
And once I have done it once I don’t need help again. That is good, right. I can do it all by myself.
Later: I wrote the above before I launched off into the dark driving the big truck and towing the big trailer with the big sold hog inside. It was a two hour round trip: returning through a misty dawn. But I did it. And as I drove back up my drive at the end of my journey, I realised that I know NO MORE about driving now than I did five years ago. I could have been driving my animals around myself for years! But fear (and that was all it was) made me overly cautious and had me begging for help.
Once I hit home I backed the trailer back up to the gate, milked the cows and fed the pigs and chickens and now I am filling all the water barrels and preparing for the days work.
Coffee first though. It is only 9.30am and time for COFFEE!
I know it is a Nike slogan but FEAR REALLY IS MY ENEMY.
Right – I am off out to shift the hose then I will get on with that coffee.
Love celi
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32 responses to “FEELING BLOODY”
I agree about the trailer just following you, with stock onboard it feels heavier and you use way more fuel, the return journey, well you forget its back there. Backing up the trailer is the real art. I can do it at home or if there is noone watching but backing it up to the unloading ramp at the abattoir with people watching is a different story!
My fear is having to inject a sick pig, on occasion I have to do it but I never get over the fear. As we get older we do less to challenge ourselves ( or maybe we know more stuff?) So I think its good to do some things that get us out of our comfort zone.
You are a brave, strong and amazing woman!
Good on you, for driving the stock trailer, but more for calling that fear out, holding it up to the light. And reminding us that dealing with fear is a lesson that keeps finding us all.
I understand completely and am SO PROUD of you for getting bloody and doing it! We have a large horse trailer and, even though Brett says I could pull it with his truck, it totally intimidates me — and I’m not easily intimidated. I much prefer that he do the trailer hauling.
Well it seems you aren’t a cow, Cecilia! I mean, you went “up steps” but also “down steps”. (Drove forward AND backed up!) Congratulations. And to top it all off, this was IN THE DARK. But who was the hog? Anyone we know?
One of the pigs I am fattening for the restaurant-
LOL, You GO Girl! You’re already done with “the backing up” so there’s nothing left to fear anymore!: )
Well, if this morning you were feeling Bloody determined, now you should be feeling Bloody triumphant. If you’d asked, Miss C, none of us would have doubted your capability for an instant. Now, trailer towing is another example of “Excellent!”, isn’t it? (PS: My very first experience of towing a trailer was to bring all my possessions 1500km north when I got married. After the first 100km, I realised I was an idiot to be nervous. After the first 500km, I almost forgot it was there…)
Fantastically well done! You deserve the coffee, a pat on the back, and all the hassles you are going to save in the future by being a pig pilot!
So PROUD of you!!😀
Am learning from you again! When I say ‘feeling bloody’ I usually mean ‘scared shitless’ !!! Well, you got mad and you got determined and you had promised and you needed the brass and you found out it WAS possible after all !! And the second time it will be easier and the third time you will sing along to the music and wonder why you allowed the ‘big boys’ to make you believe a mere female could not deal with a truck and a trailer and a hog singing aloud in the back . . . one more life’s lesson . . . .
Big truck, big trailer with (big?) pig–all in the misty dark: Big Girl !
(No, sorry, I meant to say, “”Right person for a big job!” )
And now
A big hand for another step forward! 🤗🤗🎶
I can surely relate to a bit of fear about hauling a trailer and livestock. It’s more than just hooking up, and loading up. One has to be much more aware of everything while driving – you have precious cargo back there! No stopping on a dime or going back easily if you make a wrong turn or get lost. And then there is backing the rig efficiently for unloading. Doing all of this by yourself is no small deal. Bravo to you!
I am so glad I found this missed post! I was so far behind that I totally missed this. I’ve towed a trailer but it didn’t have anything live in the back. I know the fear you were feeling because it was my first time and had my husbands big expensive motorcycle in the back. But unlike you, I do not know how to back one up. It has to keep going forward. ;( Bravery comes from necessity. You did it because you had to and then you push through the fear. That’s what always happens to me anyway. I’m so glad to have read this. Helps me feel more courageous.